Cats Show They Like You: 15 Telltale Signs!
1. Its Constant Companionship
Your cat, unlike a dog, may not snuggle up to you on the couch (though there are exceptions, like the few in my household who do), but it's a sight to behold when it does. However, you might have noticed that your feline friend often wanders around the room where you are, watching you from afar. If you move to another room, it follows closely behind. This behavior is a clear sign that your cat loves you deeply. Cats prefer to be with those they love, and your presence is no exception.
2. The Cat's "Kiss"
When your cat slowly blinks at you, it's a tender declaration of its affection. This gentle blinking, often overlooked, signifies trust and care. Cats only exhibit this behavior with those they trust and with whom they share a bond, a phenomenon known as the "cat's kiss." The next time you catch your cat blinking slowly at you, return the gesture by blinking back. It's a beautiful way to reciprocate its affectionate kiss.
3. Affectionate Bites
Some cats express their love through gentle nibbles. These playful bites are a sign of affection, not aggression. If your cat enjoys nipping at your toes or arms, it's a playful invitation to join in the fun. You might just be one of its favorite playmates!
4. Revealing Its Tummy
Cats don't expose their bellies to just anyone! This vulnerable pose is only offered when a cat feels secure and trusts you. When your cat shows its belly, it's a sign of comfort and love.
5. Headbutting You
Cats often use their heads to show affection. When they bump into you or蹭 your body, they're leaving behind special pheromones from facial glands, marking you as their own. This behavior is a way of claiming you as part of their territory. If your cat is accustomed to headbutting you, it's a proud declaration that you're one of its chosen companions.
6. Meowing at You
Cats rarely meow at other cats, but they might at their mothers. Adult cats meow to get human attention, as they've learned that sound is the most effective way to communicate with us. Your cat's meows are a way to grab your attention, seek food, or simply say hello. Some believe cats mimic human babies' cries to elicit care. But I think it's more about seeking your attention and confirming that you care for them too.
7. Bringing You Gifts
In return for all you do for them, cats sometimes bring you gifts. While finding a dead mouse or bird on your bed at 7 AM might not be your ideal morning surprise, it's a thoughtful gesture from your hunter. Cats share their kills with their closest companions, and by offering you its prey, it's ensuring you're wellfed too. It's a simple way of showing gratitude for your care.
8. Nursing on You
When cats are particularly content, they may engage in a behavior reminiscent of their kittenhood—nursing. They push their paws around, gently tugging at the surface, alternating sides. This action, likely a remnant from their early days, was used to stimulate their mother's milk flow. Cats may do this with their favorite humans, treating them almost like a mother figure.
9. Making a Rumbling Sound
Cats emit a purr when they're happy, secure, and content. This sound can also be heard in moments of tension. If your cat purrs while you pet or play with it, it means it feels at ease and is delighted to be in your presence. The louder the purr, the more content your cat is with you.
10. Licking You
When a cat licks your hair, cheeks, or ears, it's a sign of family. Cats often groom each other closely, building bonds and leaving their scent on each other. Your cat's frequent licks are a way of saying you're part of its family, a cherished member of its group.
11. Sleeping with You
Cats are particular about where they rest, especially in the wild where they are vulnerable while sleeping. If your cat chooses to nap beside you, or even on your lap, it's a clear sign that you're someone special. It's a demonstration of trust and a feeling of safety in your presence.
12. Swishing Its Tail When It Sees You
You can gauge a cat's mood by its tail. When a cat is particularly happy, it raises its tail and the tip wags gently. Just make sure it's not flicking its tail rapidly, as that indicates unease rather than contentment. If your cat's tail is high and the tip is quivering when it sees you, it's a joyful greeting. Cats are happiest when they're near their favorite people.
Cats may not show their affection in the same direct manner as dogs, but they have their own unique ways of expressing love. These subtle gestures are a testament to the deep bond you share with your feline companion.