Sassy Cats: Identifying the Most Whiny Felines!
It's said that neutered male cats tend to be more affectionate and whiny, but is this really the case? Let's explore this topic together today.
What kind of cats love to be affectionate?
Cats are generally independent and freespirited creatures. If they can be affectionate and cute with you, it would be delightful, right? There's a term for this kind of contrast, which is called "antidifference charm." Female friends can imagine it for themselves, like a domineering CEO suddenly being affectionate with you, wouldn't your heart flutter? If cats are affectionate with you, they might exhibit the following behaviors:
They follow you wherever you go
They jump onto your chest or keyboard while you're reading or using the computer
They like to sleep with you,钻进你的被窝
They like to sit on your lap
They might call out to you or use their front paws to tap you to get your attention
They use their cute little faces to rub your hands or body
Do neutered male cats like to be affectionate more?
Compared to female cats, neutered male cats tend to be more affectionate, and there are several reasons for this:
1. Faithful to their instincts
Neutered male cats will act according to their instincts, liking to be affectionate with owners who can feed them, play with them, and pet them. During the mating season, it's usually the male cats who actively seek out the female cats. After living with humans, this instinctive need naturally turns to humans. They might be affectionate and cute to their owners to ask for food or play, and as their needs are met, their affectionate behavior might increase. With your daily care, cats will build a trust relationship with you, and under this trust, cats will become more affectionate.
2. Female cats can also be affectionate with their owners, but due to their innate maternal instinct, the breeding and raising of kittens are usually done by them alone. Therefore, they are more independent in character than male cats and tend to be more cautious about their surroundings and people.
3. Neutered cats become more affectionate
When a neutered male cat has all his feelings for female cats transferred to his owner, all his needs like hunger, loneliness, or wanting to be petted will be concentrated on the owner. After neutering, the male cat's personality will become similar to a kitten, and they will become very affectionate towards their owners, and this personality might last a lifetime.
Which cat breeds are more likely to be affectionate?
It's difficult to say that a specific breed of cats is absolutely affectionate just based on one factor. We can only say that some breeds have a greater tendency to be affectionate. Let's introduce some of them below.
1. American Shorthair Cats
American Shorthair Cats are very attached to people and have a large number of fans. They are very smart, can quickly adapt to new environments, love to play, and are friendly to children.
2. Ragdoll Cats
As the name suggests, they are very quiet and stable when held, even though they are relatively large in size. They are gentle and like to be petted.
3. Maine Coon Cats
Maine Coon Cats are large, calm, and collected cats. Although they have a stubborn side, they are generally very gentle and quiet, and they love to be close to their owners.
4. Siamese Cats
Siamese Cats may have a cold personality like other cats, but they are very close to their owners. They are very smart and sensitive cats.
How to make a cat more affectionate?
Some cats are very affectionate from the start, while others are not. Different cats have different personalities. So, what can we do to make a cat that doesn't like to be affectionate become affectionate?
1. Male cats
Compared to female cats, male cats tend to be more affectionate. So, if you prefer cats that are affectionate, you might want to choose a male cat if you have the option.
2. Neutering
Generally, neutered cats will become more like kittens in personality and are more likely to be affectionate. Most cats will become more attached to their owners after surgery. Of course, neutering cats is not just to make them more attached or affectionate. If you don't want kittens, it's a good idea to neuter them.
3. Get the cat used to humans from a young age
If you want a cat to be affectionate, you first need to make sure it's not afraid of people. If you start taking care of them as kittens, the chances of them being affectionate are much higher.
4. Meet the cat's needs
If you want a cat to be affectionate, you first need to make sure it trusts you. When a cat makes a request, if you can meet its needs, the trust between you will gradually build. If you always tease it or ignore its requests, the cat will not be attached to you.
5. Don't be too clingy to the cat
I think anyone wouldn't like someone constantly hovering around them. Cats are the same. After playing with their owners, they might want to be alone for a while, sleep, etc. So, we should respect their personal space and not constantly touch them.
6. Be aware of overreliance on the cat
While it's a joy to have a cat that is very attached to you, there are also things to be aware of. If a cat is too dependent on you, it might develop separation anxiety when you need to leave it alone at home. What is separation anxiety?
7. What are the symptoms of separation anxiety?
Separation anxiety is when a cat becomes anxious and restless after being separated from its owner. This can easily lead to physical problems in the cat. Generally, it's normal for cats to feel a bit anxious after being separated from their family, but if the anxiety is too strong and leads to abnormal behavior, it might have a negative impact on the cat's health. Separation anxiety symptoms include:
Excessive excitement and running around the house
Making loud noises
Destroying items in the house
Becoming aggressive
Losing spirit
Urinating outside the litter box
So, making a cat affectionate is a good thing, but if it's too dependent on you, it's not good. It's important to find the right balance. Here are some tips:
1. Spend time playing with them at fixed times
2. Set up a regular rest and sleep schedule
3. Don't play with them when they are too excited
4. Avoid stimulating the cat when you leave home
5. Consider getting another cat if the cat is too afraid of being alone
By following these tips, you can help your cat become more affectionate and develop a healthy relationship with you.