Raising a Gentle and Well-Behaved Cat: Essential Tips
1. Just like humans, a cat's first educator is its mother. If the mother is timid and fearful of people, her offspring will likely inherit this fear. Perhaps they've already communicated their concerns to their young in their own unique way: "Humans are dangerous; keep your distance." From a young age, these kittens may not feel comfortable approaching humans.
2. The relationship with the cat's owner also plays a significant role. Even if the mother has instilled a fear of humans, the daily interactions with the person who feeds and cleans up after the kitten can change its perception. Regular play sessions, gentle cuddles, and gentle pats can make the kitten associate humans with joy. Seeing a person can bring a smile to its face.
3. The cat's physical health can also influence its attitude towards humans. Some cats are naturally frail, prone to illnesses like diarrhea and colds. If they are constantly treated with injections and medication, they may develop a grudge. Upon seeing a person, they might think, "Here comes that person again to bother me," and quickly seek refuge.
4. When a kitten moves to a new home, whether it gets along well with its owner largely depends on whether the owner genuinely loves and shows it. Some cats may be extremely afraid in a new environment. It's crucial for the owner to foster trust and a sense of closeness from the start. Forceful hugging or petting can create intense fear, leading the owner to believe the cat dislikes them or has a bad temperament. There's a process to everything. When a cat moves to a new home, it's essential to first engage in play before attempting to show affection. This allows for a period of mutual understanding.
5. As the cat gradually trusts you, it may let you stroke its head and neck, signifying its acceptance. You must respond with a gentle tone, demeanor, and expression. Praise and compliment it often, and spend time talking and playing together. Even if a cat is naturally not very affectionate, with recognition and affection, it can improve significantly. The more you acknowledge and love it, the better it will behave. Give it a try; you might be surprised!
